Who i am now

A Softer, Stronger, Deeper Version of Mimi

Kalau I look back at who I used to be…
I was always the girl who loved to share everything.
Outspoken, expressive, excited to tell the world about every little detail that made me happy.

I wasn’t wrong for being like that — it was part of who Mimi was at that time.
And I’m grateful for that version of me,
sebab dia yang bantu I sampai ke tahap hari ini.

But over the years, something changed.
Maybe sebab pengalaman hidup,
mungkin sebab perjalanan bisnes,
atau mungkin sebab I belajar untuk dengar suara hati sendiri lebih daripada suara dunia luar.

I still have my cheerful side — that will never go away.
I still love connecting with people.
But now…
it feels different.

I feel more grounded.
More calm.
More selective.
More aware.

I feel like I’m not just looking for moments,
I’m looking for meaning.

 I No Longer Crave Noise — I Crave Understanding

Dulu, I suka bising-bising, suka share semua benda tanpa fikir panjang.
Sekarang… I choose my moments.

Bukan sebab I malas share,
tapi sebab I dah sampai satu fasa hidup yang I lebih menghargai ketenangan, keikhlasan, dan connection yang betul-betul mendalam.

I no longer feel the need to explain everything.
I no longer rush to tell people what I’m doing.
I no longer overshare.

Instead, I share when it feels right.
I speak when my heart is full, not when my mind is loud.

 I’ve Learned to Seek Emotional & Physical Connection That Feels Real

I learned that life bukan tentang banyaknya orang yang tengok kita,
tapi tentang berapa ramai yang betul-betul memahami kita.

I started valuing:

✨ conversations yang ada makna
✨ hubungan yang bagi I rasa selamat
✨ ruang yang bagi I ketenangan
✨ energy yang bagi I rasa dihargai
✨ touch that feels sincere
✨ presence that feels genuine

As a therapist, I’ve touched so many people physically.
But through this journey,
I learned to understand my own emotional needs too.

I learned to protect my heart.
I learned to listen to my own soul.
And I learned that not everyone deserves full access to my energy.

That’s how I grew.

 A Woman Who Has Softened — Not Weakened

People sometimes think maturity makes you more silent.
But honestly,
it makes you more peaceful.

I’m not quieter because I’m less happy.
I’m quieter because I’m more at peace.

I don’t need to prove anything.
I don’t need to rush anything.
I don’t need to compete with anyone.

I’ve grown into a woman who—

🌿 loves deeply
🌿 speaks softly
🌿 feels strongly
🌿 chooses wisely
🌿 connects sincerely
🌿 and lives intentionally

I’m still Mimi.
Still warm, still friendly, still full of love.
But now…
I’m Mimi with layers.

Mimi with depth.
Mimi who chooses what matters.
Mimi who understands herself more than ever.